Coach Monica Leggett
From personal anecdotes, to business development case scenarios, and all the thoughts in between, Monica shares her insights into what brings success and happiness "when business meets personal."
You have to believe it, to see it!
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I love this quote:
The secret of making something work in your lives is, first of all, the deep desire to make it work; then the faith and belief that it can work; then to hold that clear definite vision in your consciousness and see it working out step by step, without one doubt or disbelief.
Eileen Caddy
Do you desire success, however you might define that? Do you even KNOW what that looks like? Do you believe that it can happen to you?
Our inner thoughts really do make a difference on our ultimate success, so it's worth spending your time noticing; are you a believer or a disbeliever?
Self-doubt is a toxin that creeps into your dreams, your relationships, your career, your finances, and even your health. If you are often filled with self-doubt, telling yourself things like, "that's going to be too hard, they won't take notice, they will find a reason to say no, maybe I'll do it another way next time when I'm ready", then you'll never be ready and you'll never manifest what you want.
The Gremlin of self-doubt IS something you can manage by noticing, by talking him or her away with positive thoughts, and by doing things in baby steps, consistently building on what you are confident in until your comfort zone is bigger and bigger.
I do an exercise with my clients called Hi-Dream, Low-Dream. Self-doubt drives the low dream or worst case scenario. Flush it out. What are all your fears. The high dream is your best case scenario; everything you dream or wish could happen. If you examine what REALITY supports each of these dreams, you will usually see that there is a better case for the high dream coming true than the low dream. Just examining it in a logical way can build your belief.
Once you believe your dream is possible, your mind can create a path to make it happen and keep you motivated to see it through. This is exactly how I lost 40 pounds. I found a tool, educated myself, and most of all, I finally believed that I could do it- even at my age (55). The same concepts can be applied to personal, business, or relationship goals.
Now go out there and dream big, flush out your Gremlins so they can't hide, and talk yourself into believing. If you need help, I'm always here.
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